Well, it's probably just not a smart thing to do for starters. But I did...and came across a few articles on "How to drive your sub/slave into deeper submission." I realize there are 1000's of ways, but there were some I read that struck a cord with me. Thought I'd share some of the things in the article with my reaction.
Have him make a list of the 10 things that make him the most self-conscious, uncomfortable or embarrassed. Thought this was interesting, 10 is sort of a big number, but I'm going to work on this one.
Work with him, having him do the things on the list (if possible), so that she conquers those fears and hesitations. Inevitable follow-up to the one above.
Have him eat from a dog bowl on occasion. Having been a sub all my life, not sure how I made it this far without ever having to do this. Would definitely make me feel submissive, especially in the presence of others.
For transgressions: Command that he is to be silent for a period of time. He may not speak, and will take whatever pain or pleasure You give as silently as possible. I tend to be sorta stoic, so not sure this would have much impact on me.
Have him wear nipple clamps under his clothing out to dinner or shopping. Yes, yes, and yes.
Speak about him as if he were not present. Another one I've never experienced. The whole objectification thing has never really been explored. Seems very subspacey to me.
Keep a list of his transgressions in a little book....let him slip for a while...thinking You are not noticing.....then one day, bring out the book and have a day of atonement. Ah, the unexpected punishment session, that's one I know about...and it works.
Don't be afraid to bring him to tears, for they are Yours as well. This one caught me off guard. From a Domme's point of view it totally makes sense...and just the thought of a dominant thinking this makes me feel submissive.
Get him tattooed (Your choice of art and location). Goddess and I have talked/joked about this one, but it is definitely something I think about.
Make him swallow his own cum or another man's cum. Well part "A" is a reality and part of my life. Part "B" something I experienced long ago, and already know how it would make me feel...owned and submissive.
Force him to eat something that he likes but modify it with spit or golden nectar. This has always been a hard limit for me, but one that I no longer wish to hold onto. This is one of the ultimate acts of submission and a punctuation mark on a dominant's power. I'm no longer afraid.
Are there any of you Domme's or Subbies who have reactions to these? or ideas of your own?
